Snowbunny

Posts Tagged ‘men’

Libido-botomy

Apparently Aspen isn’t pms proof.  I’m getting ready to bitch a lot, mostly about stupid boys, so if that isn’t your cup of coco stop reading…. NOW.  This angry post has been fortified by hours of melancholy Bright Eyes and Sufjan Stevens listening.

I’m really sick of the myth that “the girl chooses” and that men woo women…. because that shiz just does not seem to happen anymore.  I never felt like I got my choice.  I asked my gay guy friend on IM and he replied “Guys are just too lazy now to pursue women anymore”.  And I guess that is probably totally true in a girls-gone-wild era of pussygalore.  I told GayFriend “Women NEED romance” and his response was “Romance is a cultural construct created to sell lipstick and flowers”.  Maybe asking a gay guy isn’t the best research tactic… but I just don’t think boys understand anymore that romance and sweetness to girls is like blowjobs to guys… its IS foreplay… and that guys would get a lot more BJs if they’d just get it together and stop giving all us cute girls one way tickets to bitterdom.  Do men really not care how we feel anymore?  Do guys have ANY feelings besides wanting to hump anything with long hair?  I wish I could cut my sensitivity and estrogen out so that I could be a cold sex-machine which seems to be the ideal.

I’m so done.  At least for this week. No more letting down the hair.